Lingam massage for men to learn, so they can consciously develop these qualities in their. Lingam Massage allows a man to surrender his body to a form of pleasure he has never felt. The massage will therefore not include massage of the penis/lingam, which. Lingam is a tantric massage practice for awakening and honoring male creative energy and allowing a man space to relax into his body, and expand his consciousness to receive pleasure. The rising energy is concentrated in the single point.